The most important things in life – or what this blog is about

Ursprünglich hatte ich den Blog in Englisch verfasst. Daher ist dieser Artikel nicht eingedeutscht

The most important things in life – or what this blog is about

Now since this is the first post on my blog and want to give you a little introduction.

Honestly, did you ever go out to a club standing there in a corner, looking at some hot girls talking or dancing and telling yourself „wow I want to talk to them, maybe get her number and meet her again“ ? Or maybe your thoughts were more straightforward like „man, I wanna fuck this girl“ ?

About 20 minutes later you are still standing there and thinking about all the things that could happen if you would really get over there and talk to them. Your head would give you a gazzillion reasons why you would not have the smallest chance to even start a conversation with them.

Does that situation sound familiar?

I am so sure you could give me 32 reasons why those girls will brush you off but you could not tell me one single thing that you can tell them so start a conversation (except „what’s your name?“, „can I buy you a drink?“ and „where are you from?“).

Well at this stage you and I don’t have a problem do we?
I mean we are shy guys, talking to strangers is the last thing we want to do and honestly we just went out with our friends to get some drinks and have fun….

Really?

You have two main important things right in your genes that you can’t ignore and that make life worth living:
1. Survival
2. Reproduction

I think anyone who tries to tell you things like „man I have other problems right now“ or „I don’t have time for girls/relationships“ is lying because you can’t ignore that #2 Reproduction thing. It’s like you would say „Man I don’t have time to eat this week“ because that would violate #1 Survival.

I know there’s a difference between not eating for a week and not having relationships with the other sex.

But when I see people older than 25, 30 and even 40 that did never ever have sex….
Don’t we agree they are missing something bigtime?
And if you have ever been in a relationship with someone for years and you are on the same level on important things and you did show yourself to that person more than to anyone else, than you now how addicting this beautiful kind of intimacy is.

For me there is nothing more relaxing, entertaining or simply put beautiful than to have a woman next to me that loves me and that I love too.

If you can talk to her about stuff ranging from her hairstyle to the war on terror…
If you can smell her, touch her, kiss her, have sex and wake up with her the next morning…

I don’t need anything else in life (except of course food so that I don’t violate #1 Survival

So, I have a date in 15mins and therefore I will make a long story short:

If you have limiting beliefs like „I can’t talk to those girls, they don’t like me“ and stuff like that.

Please get them out of your head!

~ von seductionlifestyle am Dezember 22, 2007.